I just can't say it enough... The best way to
succeed in building social skill is to learn from
"THE MASTERS"
... men and women whose mind-blowing success seems
NATURAL and EFFORTLESS are because they practice
the social socials every single time and the skills
that seems unnatural and tough became natural and
effortless.
It's about doing something conciously until it seeps
into our subconcious.
That's why I'm VERY excited to share a MAJOR
announcement with you today... that I'm going to test
this out myself.
This is what I'm going to do. This might be a life
changing experience for me and I'm going to make it
happen no matter what. And most importantly, I want
you to join me.
Here I listed down 7 of the total 21 powerful and proven
social skills that build instant rapport regardless of
whether you're in a networking event or having a small
talk one on one with stranger.
Obviously, I don't make up these skills. I study,
learned and research these skills from the MASTERS of
COMMUNICATION like Leil Lowndes, Debra Fine, Dale Carnegie,
Jill Spiegel, and many others.
The following 7 social skills that I'm focusing on
this week are:
1) "Hello, Old Friend" - assuming a new person you are
meeting as old friends
2) Pre use the word "We", "Us" and "Our" replacing "You",
"Your" or "I" to create instant connection
3) Listen and mimick the words being used by the person,
whom we are talking to. (eg. if she used the word "chalet"
instead of "cabin"... then use the words when responding to
her)
4) When meeting someone for the very first time and if
received a cold hand shake, perhaps we can try to say "I don't
quite get it, can we try again" while extending our hand.
5) Use right eyes to gaze deep into the right eye of the person
who we are talking to. That's call soul gazing.
6) When someone is telling a story.... listen attentively by
twisting our head slightly to the left to indicate interest.
7) Create body contact, by doing "high five". And one of the best
way is lifting our right/left hand and look away from the person
and awaits the clap.
I'll continue the remaining 14 socials which I would practice
conciously for the next 90 days and share with you the impact
of doing that.
If you are reading this now, then... that's an indication that
perhaps we should be doing this together.
Have fun!!
Cheers,
Kian
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